How to Help a Friend Quit Smoking

How to help a friend quit smokingbecome familiar with smokeless cigarettes as an
 Smoking is the number one preventable cause ofalternative to smoking.  
death in the U.S.  Smoking causes lung cancer, heartOther possibilities include starting deep breathing yoga
attacks, emphysema, and stroke.  People who smokeexercises, using relaxation CDs, or squeezing a
have much  shorter life expectancies than peoplephysical therapy ball to relieve tension.  A quit smoking
who don’t.plan needs to be tailored a bit for each individual.
 How do you help a friend or family member quit A Quit Smoking Plan is fairly easy to prepare.  The
smoking?  It isn’t easy.  Smoking is a difficult habithard part is getting a smoker to follow the plan.
to break.  Smoking is an addiction with physiological There is no guaranteed way to get a smoker to
and psychological components.follow a quit smoking plan.  However there are some
 Nevertheless, there are things you can do to helpthings you can try.
someone quit smoking.  In my talk I will explain how to To get the smoker’s attention you might try
present a smoker with information on the healthsending the smoker some of the anti smoking
consequences of smoking, how to develop a Quitmerchandise available for sale on the ALA web site. 
Smoking Plan, and how to persuade a smoker toThere you can order T shirts and other items with
follow such a plan.slogans urging people not to smoke.
 I realize that by talking about the health affects of You may be able to convince the smoker to
smoking I run the risk of depressing the wholeprepare a quit smoking plan.  If not, you can prepare
audience.   I promise to move quickly to the moreone yourself and give it to the smoker.  You can also
practical question of how to quit.talk about the plan with the smoker and explain the
 The health consequences of smoking are wellimportance of each step of the plan.
documented.  Two places to find such information Repetition is a useful tool of persuasion, so remind
are the Mayo Clinic website and the American Lungthe smoker as often as possible of the quit smoking
Association website.day and the need to prepare for it. 
 Smoking is responsible for nearly one in five deaths Explain to the smoker that the withdrawal symptoms
in the United States. Almost half a million people dieare worst in the first 7 to 10 days after quitting.  This
every year from the consequences of smoking.may enable the smoker to get through the first few
On average, smokers die 13 to 14 years sooner thandays.
nonsmokers do. Spending some money on the effort may also
Lung cancer is the No.1 cause of cancer death in thehelp.  For example, if the smoker cannot afford a quit
United States.smoking class or an exercise program, you could pay
Almost 90,000 Americans die each year of coronaryfor it yourself.  This will show that you take the issue
heart disease caused by smoking.  Smokers haveseriously, and they should too.
triple the risk of coronary heart disease that Preaching  to or nagging the smoker not to smoke
nonsmokers have.is probably not that helpful.  Part of what you do will
Smoking raises your blood pressure, cholesterol leveldepend on the smoker’s attitude.  The smoker
and your risk of blood clots. A smoker is two to sixmay have no interest in quitting and rebuff your efforts
times more likely to have a heart attack, and the moreentirely.  Or, he or she might have some interest in
you smoke, the higher your risk.giving up smoking, but may be unwilling to follow every
Depending on how well you know a smoker, you couldstep of the quit smoking plan.  In some cases a
simply mention these websites or print out and discusssmoker might need just a little nudge to quit smoking.
the information with the smoker. Another possibility is that after the quit smoking date
 the smoker succeeds in cutting down on smoking but
 After reviewing the health affects of smoking, thedoes not quit entirely.  In this case you need to praise
next step in quitting smoking is the Quit Smoking Plan.the smoker’s effort to quit but also remind the
 A quit smoking plan is a detailed list of steps thatsmoker that it is necessary to quit completely. 
someone should take to quit smoking.  It is usually notReview the reasons to quit with the smoker – often
realistic for someone to just wake up one day and quithealth benefits alone are not enough to persuade a
smoking.  A certain amount of planning andsmoker to quit.  Also review the parts of the quit
preparation is needed.smoking plan that were not followed and try to get the
A quit smoking plan should mention some of the healthsmoker to follow those parts of the plan as well.
and other reasons that provide the motivation for a You are doing a friend a big favor by trying to help
smoker to quit. him or her quit smoking.
A quit smoking plan should set a quit date, which is a To be successful, you need the right tools.  Consult
date sometime in the near future, when the smoker willrelevant websites for information on the health affects
plan to stop smoking.  This gives a smoker time toof smoking.  Prepare a detailed quit smoking plan. 
prepare to kick the habit.Convince the smoker to follow the plan.
The bulk of the quit smoking plan contains a series of 46 million Americans who once smoked have
actions the smoker needs to take to get ready tosuccessfully quit.  It isn’t easy, but the health
quit.  Such actions include joining a local smokingbenefits are considerable. 
cessation class, identifying a group of people who can You may feel bad if your friend does not quit.  The
provide support when the smoker quits, and reviewingbest thing to do in that case is to say “good
the quit smoking literature available on the ALAtry.”  Quitting smoking often takes several
website.  This website contains a detailed sevenattempts, and each attempt is a step forward.
module program called Freedom from Smoking which If you have a friend or family member who smokes,
describes how to quit smoking.try helping them to quit.  Stick with it.  If you are not
A smoker can also join a gym or get a treadmill,successful on the first attempt, remember the old
because exercise is helpful for someone giving upadage, “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try
smoking.  In addition, smokers can consult a doctor oragain.
pharmacist about nicotine patches and gum and